How do you make a guy obsess over you? We’re not talking crazy stalker stuff, but the ability to conjure that feeling in him, that he just can’t get enough. It’s not about playing games, putting on an act or using manipulative tactics. It’s not even about batting your eyelashes, though a little flirting never goes astray.
It’s all about staying true to you, in order to make him crazy for you. Let’s take a look at ten ways high-value women do it.
1. Bring Uniquely Positive Experiences To His Life
Which type of memories do you typically obsess over? Chances are, they include those special moments that gave you positive emotional feelings. The key word here is special. Let’s say you’re seeing two identical guys. The first is a great guy who invites you out to dinner and a movie, has good values, seems responsible and engages in witty conversation.
The second has all those qualities, but he also takes you on unique adventures, talks passionately about quirky interests, blows your mind in bed and randomly stops in the middle of the street for a passionate kiss or two.
Which one are you going to go for?
The second guy is the obvious choice, because of the unique, positive experiences he brings to your life. Not only does he tick most of the boxes, he also gives you experiences no one else has, or can, replicate. It doesn’t really matter what it is that you bring to a guy, as long as they’re positive and authentically you. Perhaps you’re a laugh a minute on dates, you flirt with a unique charm, play video games at three in the morning or make him feel like a man when he’s around you.
Regardless, the more you provide this unique source of positive feelings, the more utterly irresistible you’ll be to him.
2. Project Confidence
If you hate eating on dates, nervously bite your nails in social situations and downplay your strong points, it’s time to work on your self-esteem. It goes without saying that confidence is attractive to men, just as it is to women. This is because when you believe you’re a prize, he’ll believe it too.
“When you believe you’re a prize, he’ll believe it too.”